Responsible Parent
~Wants the child or has planed for the child they are going to have and have made preparations prior to the starting process of getting one
~Is an adult themselves and can first take care of themselves before they try to take care of the life of another, towards one who can't take care of themselves without assistance
~Is willing to sacrifice their time, needs, and wants for he the time, needs, and wants of another life
~Is compassionate and caring, without being overbearing
~Is willing to express discipline only when the moment requires it.
~Does not complain about the hardships he/she has to go through in order to be a parent and is blessed with the child they have
~Is not neglectful or absent-minded, is self-aware, understanding, and open-minded.
Irresponsible Parent
~Had unprotected sex without the consideration of possibly getting pregnant or mindfully does not want a child at the time and neglected the possibilities before the actions they took.
~The condom broke and did not take actions necessary in order to fix the problem before it became a future lifestyle, one that will force the parent to give up all personal expectations of themselves for the sake of another living being
~Does not want children or has the mindset that children are annoying, obnoxious, creatures and don't deserve the time and effort of the person who is distasteful of them
~Is unwilling to take care of themselves before the sake of another
~Was pressured into having a child without personally wishing to have one and following along with what their partner wants without establishing a mode of mutual understanding towards the right time and place for both parties
~Is thinking about or is possibly considering in the future that their partner is not the one for them and has a child together anyways. Which will either lock the two people together despite dispute and uneasiness or forcing one parent to take on all of the responsibility
~Does not do research prior to actions needed to have a child
~Does not understand how to take care of a child and the biological concerns outside the structure of sexual intercourse
~Is unaware of their surroundings or completely oblivious to common sense.
~Is irritable, judgmental, or overbearing, forcing ones own beliefs on the child without first considering the child's own individuality first.
~Is irresponsible in the sense that they have no prior knowledge or experience in handling the responsibilities needed in order to take on the new lifestyle.
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